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How Green is Your Clean?

Amy Sedgwick April 6, 2016

Still using mainstream body care products? From DIY toothpaste to “poetic pits” deodorant, we've got budget-friendly, effective alternatives to help you finally make the switch.

According to the Environmental Working Group, women use an average of 12 products a day, containing 168 different chemicals. Sadly, even products that are marketed as "natural" can still be filled with problematic ingredients. How is that possible? There's a sneaky little loophole called "fragrance" - a catch-all term that allows manufactures to hide what's really lurking in your favourite body care product. 

To help make it easier to choose the most body-friendly, non-toxic products we've created a handy little checklist with the top ten ingredients to avoid (plus info on why we recommend steering clear). It can also be helpful to have some specific recommendations, so below you'll find our top picks for hair care products, toothpaste, deodorant, moisturizer, and soap. We're focusing on these since they're the products you likely use the most often, which means your eco efforts will have the biggest impact.

Deodorant

This is often the toughest switch to make, especially for those who are going from anti-perspirant to deodorant. Finding a brand that works for you and your lifestyle/body chemistry can be tricky. Dr. Mist has proven the magic solution for both of us and it's also the one that Amy's husband uses. Amy uses the unscented version whereas Kim prefers the lavender. As a "treat" we use the Living Libations Poetic Pits - a pricier option, but it smells divine (we wear it in lieu of perfume).  If you'd prefer to make your own, there are lots of recipes online that contain less than five ingredients, most of which you probably have in your kitchen. A popular combination is coconut oil, baking soda, arrowroot powder, and an essential oil of your choice. Some people find they react to baking soda, so if that happens you may want to experiment with reducing how much you include. We haven't tried it yet, but we've heard great things about this concotion by The Healthy Maven.

Toothpaste

A few years ago we were introduced to the work of Samantha Gladish, a holistic nutritionist who has a special interest in oral health. The first time we met Samantha we immediately commented on her teeth. We assumed she must have had them professionally whitened or used those strips you get at the drugstore, but in fact she uses a totally natural toothpaste that she created herself! It only has eight ingredients (with names you can pronounce) and is free of sodium lauryl sulfates - an ingredient found in most mainstream toothpastes that's on our top ten list of things to avoid. We're total converts! Amy's daughter Mattea loves Salty Kisses too. We've also experimented with making our own toothpaste using Meghan Telpner's four ingredient recipe.

Hair Care

Have you jumped on the "no-poo" train yet? Lots of folks swear that ditching shampoo and switching to baking soda is the key to healthier hair (at a fraction of the cost). You can find more info on the DIY Natural website. Personally we're big fans of Morrocco Method. Their products are raw, vegan, paleo-friendly and free of all nasties. Plus the company was founded by a "hair shaman" who used to do Jackie Onasis's hair. He cuts and treats hair by the moon phases too if you want to get really into it! Making the hair gel switch was the hardest thing on this list for Amy to do. Amy's curly hair needs just the right product to prevent her from looking like Kramer from Seinfeld. She tried at least half a dozen organic brands before a colleague finally put her on to the Morrocco Method products. Their "Blood of the Dragon" hair gel works great. The real testament is that Amy's curly-haired husband has also made the switch and he's not an easy sell when it comes to ditching his mainstream products!

Soap

Soap should be one of the easiest products to switch out since natural soaps abound and we have yet to try one that doesn't work. As long as it is not leaving you stinky then you're probably good! In fact, you may want to consider lathering up less since Vitamin D that is produced on the skin's surface takes 24 hours to absorb into the body. If you're washing all over on a daily basis you may be literally washing away your vitamins! Try just washing the parts that are prone to smell or to bacteria build-up and consider leaving the other areas of your body (like your forearms and legs) for a weekly soap-up.  Want to make your own soap? Wellness Mama has oodles of info on their website, including several different recipes (you'll also find advice on how to make other body care products, including deodorant, shampoo, and face masks). 

Moisturizer

Our grandmother was a Mary Kay rep which meant we grew up slathering all kinds of frighteningly toxic creams and lotions on our skin. Nowadays you'll find us using some version of cocoa butter and shea butter, like Samantha Gladish's Love Your Body Butter or Parkdale Butter. When it comes to face cream we've switched to Argan Oil (Kim uses Sola Balancing Face Oil) or occasionally other serums like those from Audacite. But aside from the deep winter months when the wind and air take a beating to our faces we figure our skin shouldn't need anything if we're staying properly hydrated. ;)

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Kim & Amy Sedgwick love to discuss sex, periods, and all the other things we’re not supposed to talk about. The co-founders of Red Tent Sisters, they’ve been featured in every major Canadian news outlet and have become a trusted resource for women seeking natural (effective!) birth control, a more joyful sex life, and an empowered journey to motherhood.

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Kim & Amy Sedgwick love to discuss sex, periods, and all the other things we’re not supposed to talk about. The co-founders of  Red Tent Sisters , they’ve been featured in every major Canadian news outlet and have become a trusted resource for people seeking natural (effective!) birth control, a more joyful sex life, and an empowered journey to motherhood.

Kim & Amy Sedgwick love to discuss sex, periods, and all the other things we’re not supposed to talk about. The co-founders of Red Tent Sisters, they’ve been featured in every major Canadian news outlet and have become a trusted resource for people seeking natural (effective!) birth control, a more joyful sex life, and an empowered journey to motherhood.

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Spending the day sending my Confidence Building Secrets course out into the world and sipping coffee from the same @goodvibestoys mug that was gifted to me when I first launched this program. #pleasureisyourbirthright
In 2017 I was deep in reflection mode thanks to my CTI coaching program. One of my many “aha” moments was that I had a tendency to avoid difficult conversations in my relationships. If I was hurt or angry, I’d keep it to myself or share it with everyone but my partner. Inevitably, those feelings would manifest as passive-aggressive behavior or lead to conversations that included accusations like, “you never”. In other words, I would make gross generalizations that of course put the other person on the defensive and guaranteed that what I was trying to express wouldn’t be received. I knew the importance of good communication but somehow that knowledge wasn’t translating into action. 
Drawing on what I’d learned from my training program, immersing myself in the work of people like Esther Perel, Brené Brown, and Harriet Lerner, and reflecting on my own coaching practice, I put together a framework for how I wanted to engage with my partner. The process poured out of me in one sitting. It’s what Amy and I like to call “channeling” – that feeling when an idea flows effortlessly. 
The framework is based on three general principles:

We don’t need to share everything in order to be authentic. There are some things that are better processed with a friend, a therapist/coach, or a journal. 
Be clear with yourself first about what you need to get out of the conversation. You can’t get what you don’t ask for.

There are three “people” in every relationship – you, your partner and the relationship. You’re not responsible for the other person and you can’t change their behavior. You can change how you show up in the relationship and that will have a ripple effect.

I’ve had the opportunity to “test” my framework several times with my new partner and all I can say is this sh*t makes a difference. It truly feels like the culmination of my career thus far and I can’t wait to share it with you all. I’m still fine-tuning and tweaking, but I know I’m on to something. Amy is holding me accountable and helping me turn this into what I know it is meant to be – a book. Until then, if you feel like communication is something that you would like coaching on, click the link in bio.
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Red Tent Sisters

Holistic Reproductive, Fertility & Sexuality Solutions

Kim & Amy Sedgwick are the Co-Founders of Red Tent Sisters, a business that has been providing holistic fertility, sexuality and contraceptive solutions since 2007. Amy is trained as a Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who specializes in helping women coming off the pill adopt natural, effective birth control using the Justisse Method. Kim runs their “sister” business, ecosex.ca (Canada’s first eco-friendly sexuality store) and coaches women who are ready to begin claiming and communicating their erotic desires. Together they provide support to women worldwide through their online courses, YouTube videos, and social media channels, and are known for their professional yet candid sisterly advice.

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